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		<description><![CDATA[Anemia is a kind of blood disorder. It is most commonly found blood disorder and affects a large number of people worldwide. Women and people with chronic illnesses are at augmented risk of anemia. It is a condition where there is a lower than normal red blood cells in the blood, generally measured by the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anemia is a kind of blood disorder. It is most commonly found blood disorder and affects a large number of people worldwide. Women and people with chronic illnesses are at augmented risk of anemia. It is a condition where there is a lower than normal red blood cells in the blood, generally measured by the reduction in the amount of hemoglobin. Hemoglobin is the oxygen carrying red blood cells. This is the reason why their color is red. There are different types of anemia, each with its own cause. Anemia can be temporary or long-term and can range from mild to severe. The reason differs with the kind of anemia.</p>
<p>The various causes of anemia include potential loss of blood, bad nutrition, disease, medication reactions and various problems of the bone marrow, where blood cells are made. Anemia due to iron deficiency is more common in women having heavy periods. Risk factors include heavy periods, pregnancy, older age, and disease that cause anemia. If you child is suffering from anemia, the primary symptoms might be mild skin paleness, and reduced pinkness of the lips and nail beds.</p>
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<p>There are various anemia treatments recommended by doctors. By taking more iron supplements one can restore back the essential iron needed by the body. Lack or iron in the body can be due to diet or poor absorption of iron.</p>
<p>Vitamin B12 plays an important role in the production of blood cells increasing your intake of vitamin B12 is necessary for keeping your blood clean and healthy. Folic acid is known to be one of the most effective anemia treatments used by doctors as it is very effective in treating anemia. You can take it in tablet form but it is also available to be injected in more serious conditions. It is responsible for creating and maintaining new blood cells.</p>
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		<title>Postpartum Depression &#8211; The Aftermath of Complicated Pregnancy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A mother is always happy after the birth of her baby. She lovingly cuddles it and welcomes herself to this new world of parenthood. However, some mothers might be experiencing the other way. Instead of being blissful about the event, they tend to cry and be sad about it. So why thus this irony happens? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A mother is always happy after the birth of her baby. She lovingly cuddles it and welcomes herself to this new world of parenthood. However, some mothers might be experiencing the other way. Instead of being blissful about the event, they tend to cry and be sad about it. So why thus this irony happens? Actually, it is quite normal for this to occur; however, if it persists more than the postpartal period then it can be considered as postpartum depression.</p>
<p>Postpartum Depression is a form of clinical depression that mostly affects the females. This probably occurs as a response to the overwhelming feeling of childbirth and probably related to hormonal shifts as estrogen, progesterone, and corticotropin-releasing hormone levels in her body decline.</p>
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<p>In addition to the overall feeling of sadness, the woman may notice extreme fatigue, inability to stop crying, increased anxiety about the baby&#8217;s and her health status, insecurity, psychosomatic symptoms (like nausea, vomiting and diarrhea), and either depressive or manic mood fluctuations.</p>
<p>Low self-esteem may be a major contributor to the occurrence of the disease. A woman do have a high chance of getting it if she has a history of depression, a troubled childhood, stress in the home or work, and lack of effective support people. Sometimes the differences between a woman wanting a pregnancy and her partner not wanting it could trigger the disorder.</p>
<p>Prediction of the occurrence of the depression is difficult especially before birth. It is due to the variety of reactions elicited during birth. But if can be identified, counseling will be beneficial and helpful to prevent the symptoms. For the woman who have not been identified to be at risk for the disorder, it is important to discover the source of the problem immediately as the symptoms develop.</p>
<p>The woman may need further counseling to integrate the experience of childbirth to her life. It is important to identify the problems and allow the creation of solutions to those. For if not, the disorder will persists and may lead to a more advance form of it, Postpartum Psychosis. Postpartum depression treatment also includes the initiation of antidepressant medicines to relieve the symptoms of the disease immediately.</p>
<p>The role of the woman&#8217;s partner is highly important to the prevention of this. The support he will be giving is greatly needed to enable the woman to recover emotionally from this overwhelming event. Financial security will also play a big factor to the occurrence of it. If the mother will be anxious to the expenses of having a baby (like the hospital fees, diapers, and infant formula), it is most likely that the mother will think about it and the focus of her attention will be directed to it instead.</p>
<p>The birth of a child is a very important and at the same time, a very stressful event for a mother. A supportive husband and relatives will help her to cope up to the stress that this event will give. For if not, the mother will likely have the disorder; affecting the relationship of both partners and most importantly, the relationship of the mother to her baby and its emotional growth.</p>
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<p>Kenneth Divinagracia is a Registered Nurse and wants to share his insights on any topic.</p>
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		<title>Depression Treatment ? Try These Useful Home Remedies for Depression</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Article provides Information on most of the Home Remedies for Depression which are especially recommended by users. First we will discuss about Depression. &#13; People with depression are simply not able to carry on their lives normally. Without treatment, symptoms can last for weeks, months, or years. When these symptoms become very intense, they [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>This Article provides Information on most of the Home Remedies for Depression which are especially recommended by users. First we will discuss about Depression.</b></p>
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<p>People with depression are simply not able to carry on their lives normally. Without treatment, symptoms can last for weeks, months, or years. When these symptoms become very intense, they start interfering with one’s ability to normally carry out even the daily chores. The person feels unable to do anything about it; other people need to help him out of this depressive situation. Appropriate treatment is required to help most people who suffer from depression.</p>
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<p>Symptoms:</p>
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<p>The symptoms that help identify depression include: </p>
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<p>1)	Constant feelings of sadness, irritability.</p>
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<p>2)	Feeling exhausted most of the time, despite lack of activity.</p>
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<p>3)	Decreased interest social activities.</p>
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<p>4)	Significant weight change.</p>
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<p>5)	A change in sleeping pattern, such as difficulty sleeping or early morning awakening.</p>
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<p>6)	Lack of confidence. </p>
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<p>7)	Spends a lot of time thinking about what has gone wrong or what will go wrong.</p>
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 <img src='http://www.pregnancydepression.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> Feelings of worthlessness or guilt.</p>
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<p>9)	Physical pain, which has no apparent physical </p>
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<p>10)	Thoughts of suicide or death </p>
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<p>If you or somebody close to you is experiencing any of these symptoms, you must consult a doctor right away.</p>
<p><b>What causes depression?</b></p>
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<p>Causes of depression are still unknown, Depression has no single cause &#8211; it may result from a combination of things. However, it can be triggered by:</p>
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<p>1)	Trauma and stress &#8211; financial problems, the breakup of a relationship, or the death of a near one can bring in depression. </p>
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<p>2)	Loss of social support such as the loss of a job </p>
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<p>3)	Poverty.</p>
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<p>4)	Physical conditions &#8211; chronic illness such as Parkinson’s, diabetes, HIV or cancer </p>
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<p>5)	Side-effects of medications.</p>
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<p>6)	Hormonal changes that affect mood, such as the onset or end of menstruation, menopause.</p>
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<p>7)	Alcohol abuse </p>
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 <img src='http://www.pregnancydepression.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> Hereditary &#8211; depression may run in families, and parents may pass on the defective genes.</p>
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<p>9)	People with low self-esteem, or who are pessimistic.</p>
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<p>10)	Psychological disorders such as anorexia.</p>
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<p>11)	Some scientists suggest that overexposure to electro-magnetic smog from computer terminals and kitchen appliances, especially the microwave oven, upset the balance of the body&#8217;s own electromagnetic field and leads to depression.</p>
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<p>12)	Being physically or sexually abused. </p>
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<p>13)	Family conflicts, especially between parents.</p>
<p><b>Depression in women</b></p>
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<p>Women are prone to depression twice as compared to men. Many hormonal factors may contribute to the increased rate of depression in women particularly factors as menstrual cycle, pregnancy, miscarriage, premenstrual syndrome and menopause. Many women also face additional tensions such as responsibilities both at work and home, single parenthood, and caring for children.</p>
<p><b>How to diagnose depression:</b></p>
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<p>A good diagnostic assessment will include a complete history of the patient’s symptoms, i.e., when it started, how severe they are, are they recurrent, whether any previous treatment was given, if yes, then what treatment. The doctor should enquire about physical abuse or alcohol and drug use. Further, a history should include information about whether other family members have had a depressive illness.</p>
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<p>Can depression be treated?</p>
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<p>•	Yes, depression can be treated. </p>
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<p>•	About 80% of people treated for depression get better. </p>
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<p>•	Both medication and therapy can effectively treat depression. </p>
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<p>What happens, if depression is left untreated?</p>
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<p>Depression if untreated, can affect:</p>
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<p>1)	Social behaviour, along with normal day to day functioning </p>
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<p>2)	Self-esteem and confidence </p>
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<p>3)	Can lead to drug abuse, disruptive behaviours, violence and aggression, </p>
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<p>4)	Even lead to suicide </p>
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<p>Depression is a serious problem that demands a serious medical approach. However, you need to first recognize what is causing it.</p>
<p><b>How to treat depression? </b></p>
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<p>Most people with depression never seek medical help, even though the majority will respond to treatment. Treating depression is especially important because it affects you, your family, and your work. Depression is a curable  illness.</p>
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<p>Treatment includes a combination of professional counseling, drug therapy, and family support. <br />&#13;</p>
<p>Love, appreciation and normal communication are some of the most important things you should provide to help the person cope with depression. Do not be critical of the person at any stage.</p>
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<p>A change in normal lifestyle habits can help reduce symptoms of depression. Encourage the person to:</p>
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<p>•	Go in for some light exercise regularly, such as swimming, walking. </p>
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<p>•	Avoid alcohol and illegal drugs. </p>
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<p>•	Get a good and refreshing sleep </p>
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<p>•	Eat a balanced diet. </p>
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<p>•	Be optimistic. Positive thinking is very important in recovering from depression. </p>
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<p>Change will not come overnight &#8211; but with the right treatment, you can keep depression from overshadowing your life. Early treatment of depression will bring about the best results. Think positive, recovery will happen, but gradually.</p>
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<p>Are anti-depressants helpful?</p>
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<p>Many psychiatric drugs have not been satisfactorily tested in patients, so we do not know for sure the risks or the benefits of these medications. </p>
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<p>The thumb rule is caution while giving antidepressants &#8211; They should be neither a first nor a last resort. If given, anti-depressants should not be stopped abruptly, because it may lead to a withdrawal syndrome that includes dizziness, nausea, seizures and anxiety. </p>
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<p>Side effects of anti-depressants:</p>
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<p>The side effects vary depending on the drug, but can include:</p>
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<p>•	Insomnia </p>
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<p>•	Sleepiness </p>
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<p>•	Increased anxiety </p>
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<p>•	Nausea or vomiting </p>
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<p>•	Headaches </p>
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<p>•	Dizziness </p>
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<p>•	Weight gain or loss </p>
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<p>Beware!  Anti depressants can trigger off suicidal behaviour!</p>
<p><b>Some helpful Home Remedies for Depression –</b></p>
<p><b>Home Remedy for Depression</b> is the best solution as it is free from any side effects. </p>
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<p>1) Ayurveda recommends yoga, massage and meditation, which increases the energy of life.  Yoga exercises help to increase the circulation of oxygen in the system and helps keeps the mind relaxed. Deep breathing exercises or “pranayama” help the body and mind to relax. This is useful <b>Home Remedy for Depression</b>.</p>
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<p>2) Try to distract your mind. Listen to your favourite music, do the things you are fond of, eat something good, go out with friends – bring a change in your daily routine, and it will help cope with depression.</p>
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<p>3) Aromatherapy helps the body relax and revive the nervous system. Inhalation of some herbal oils like rose, jasmine, lime, and grapefruit are considered a natural remedy for depression. </p>
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<p>4) Cashew nuts are extremely beneficial in treating depression, as it is a rich source of vitamin B. It ensures body activeness and energy levels. This is useful <b>Home Remedy for Depression</b>.</p>
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<p>5) Take daily walks. Fresh air and deep breathing exercises are both good in aiding relaxation.<br />&#13;</p>
<p>Avoid black tea, kava tea, tobacco and alcohol. Eat more wheat germ, which is an energizer. Pears, apples, and nuts assist the nervous system in functioning properly.</p>
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<p>TALK TO SOMEONE IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE DEPRESSED…….IT MAY JUST WORK!!</p>
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		<title>What?s wrong with ?Evidence Based? depression treatments?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[With all our medical advances, why is it that the incidence of depression and anxiety is skyrocketing. The World Health Organisation says that depression is the most disabling disease in the Western World today, yet all mental healthcare specialists seem to talk about is “evidence based” treatments such as counselling and anti depressants. Whilst these [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all our medical advances, why is it that the incidence of depression and anxiety is skyrocketing. The World Health Organisation says that depression is the most disabling disease in the Western World today, yet all mental healthcare specialists seem to talk about is “evidence based” treatments such as counselling and anti depressants. Whilst these strategies have been shown to be helpful for some people, if this was really cutting edge advice, why aren’t we seeing the incidence of depression declining or at the very least plateauing. This in no way seeks to imply that medication and psychological counselling don’t have their place in treating depression, just that we are not exploring all the variables</p>
<p>Having interviewed thousands of people who have battled with depression, I am convinced that there are some serious issues with the “evidence based” approach to treating depression. These can be summarised as follows:</p>
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<p> <strong>The “evidence” is where the money is</strong>
<p>Unfortunately clinical trials are very expensive to run so private funding will only be directed towards those areas where “investors” can see a return on investment. In the world of depression treatments, this means that the vast majority of funds are directed towards medication and psychological counselling interventions. This means that important lifestyle strategies such as exercise, emotional support,nutrition, relaxation, and fulfilling work are relatively ignored. Ironically these less discussed strategies can be much less costly to implement.</p>
<p> <strong>When you’re holding a hammer everything looks like a nail</strong>
<p>The vast majority of depression treatment studies are undertaken by doctors or psychologists. Whilst there is nothing wrong with this per se, most of these studies are evaluating areas where they have expertise (which makes sense). This means that the comparisons are often looking in isolation at one drug verses another (or a placebo) or one psychological intervention verses another. Quite often meaningful advancements in areas can come from someone outside the established “paradigms”. I love the story of the little boy who came across rescue workers who had been struggling for 3 hours with sophisticated hydraulic equipment trying to dislodge a truck which had been tightly wedged under an overhead bridge.  After being encouraged to leave the site he quietly said “Why don’t you let down the tyres?”.</p>
<p> <strong>We are not just DNA</strong>
<p>As human beings our bodies and minds are intricately linked. Depression treatments that focus purely on a “biological illness” are seriously limited. Much of the despair that exists in the western world today can be linked to loneliness, family breakdowns, excessive and unfulfilling work, and financial crises. Saying that depression is caused by low levels of serotonin is like saying teen pregnancies are caused by a sperm fertilising an egg – yes, but…. Depression treatments that fail to reconnect us with our passions and purpose are ultimately going to be short lived solutions.</p>
<p><strong>What are the right depression treatments?</strong></p>
<p>To find out what works best in managing or overcoming depression, we must ask the people who are living with depression what works best for them. In 2007 I asked just that, and their answers were (in order) exercise, support of family and friends, psychological counselling, fulfilling work, relaxation/meditation, nutrition and medication.</p>
<p>Coincidentally, the Black Dog Institute (BDI) –one of the pre-eminent mood disorder units in the world &#8211; also undertook a study directly asking those with depression what helped them most. Although there were some differences in the studies, lifestyle strategies were also shown to be extremely important. One of the authors of the published study, Professor Gordon Parker, who has been practicing psychiatry for over 30 years, has now started advising General Practitioners and their patients to exercise regularly to aid recovery.</p>
<p>If Professor Parker, who has published over 600 clinical papers and book chapters regarding mood disorders, can learn something from these results, perhaps we all can.</p>
<p>With all our medical advances, why is it that the incidence of depression and anxiety is skyrocketing. The World Health Organisation says that depression is the most disabling disease in the Western World today, yet all mental healthcare specialists seem to talk about is “evidence based” treatments such as counselling and anti depressants. Whilst these strategies have been shown to be helpful for some people, if this was really cutting edge advice, why aren’t we seeing the incidence of depression declining or at the very least plateauing. This in no way seeks to imply that medication and psychological counselling don’t have their place in treating depression, just that we are not exploring all the variables</p>
<p>Having interviewed thousands of people who have battled with depression, I am convinced that there are some serious issues with the “evidence based” approach to treating depression. These can be summarised as follows:</p>
<p> <strong>The “evidence” is where the money is</strong>
<p>Unfortunately clinical trials are very expensive to run so private funding will only be directed towards those areas where “investors” can see a return on investment. In the world of depression treatments, this means that the vast majority of funds are directed towards medication and psychological counselling interventions. This means that important lifestyle strategies such as exercise, emotional support,nutrition, relaxation, and fulfilling work are relatively ignored. Ironically these less discussed strategies can be much less costly to implement.</p>
<p> <strong>When you’re holding a hammer everything looks like a nail</strong>
<p>The vast majority of depression treatment studies are undertaken by doctors or psychologists. Whilst there is nothing wrong with this per se, most of these studies are evaluating areas where they have expertise (which makes sense). This means that the comparisons are often looking in isolation at one drug verses another (or a placebo) or one psychological intervention verses another. Quite often meaningful advancements in areas can come from someone outside the established “paradigms”. I love the story of the little boy who came across rescue workers who had been struggling for 3 hours with sophisticated hydraulic equipment trying to dislodge a truck which had been tightly wedged under an overhead bridge.  After being encouraged to leave the site he quietly said “Why don’t you let down the tyres?”.</p>
<p> <strong>We are not just DNA</strong>
<p>As human beings our bodies and minds are intricately linked. Depression treatments that focus purely on a “biological illness” are seriously limited. Much of the despair that exists in the western world today can be linked to loneliness, family breakdowns, excessive and unfulfilling work, and financial crises. Saying that depression is caused by low levels of serotonin is like saying teen pregnancies are caused by a sperm fertilising an egg – yes, but…. Depression treatments that fail to reconnect us with our passions and purpose are ultimately going to be short lived solutions.</p>
<p><strong>What are the right depression treatments?</strong></p>
<p>To find out what works best in managing or overcoming depression, we must ask the people who are living with depression what works best for them. In 2007 I asked just that, and their answers were (in order) exercise, support of family and friends, psychological counselling, fulfilling work, relaxation/meditation, nutrition and medication.</p>
<p>Coincidentally, the Black Dog Institute (BDI) –one of the pre-eminent mood disorder units in the world &#8211; also undertook a study directly asking those with depression what helped them most. Although there were some differences in the studies, lifestyle strategies were also shown to be extremely important. One of the authors of the published study, Professor Gordon Parker, who has been practicing psychiatry for over 30 years, has now started advising General Practitioners and their patients to exercise regularly to aid recovery.</p>
<p>If Professor Parker, who has published over 600 clinical papers and book chapters regarding mood disorders, can learn something from these results, perhaps we all can.</p>
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<p>Graeme Cowan battled depression himself before writing BACK FROM THE BRINK and BACK FROM THE BRINK TOO. Free copies of his <a rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:_gaq.push(['_trackPageview', '/outgoing/article_exit_link']);" href="http://www.iambackfromthebrink.com/Research.html">depression treatment</a> and the BDI research mentioned in the article can be found at: www.IamBackFromTheBrink.com</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[there is a no contact protective order between us but not the children. He was very physically and verbally abusive throughout both of my pregnancies. I had him arrested for strangling me when I was like 4 months pregnant and he was put on a limited protective order which means he could visit my home [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>there is a no contact protective order between us but not the children. He was very physically and verbally abusive throughout both of my pregnancies. I had him arrested for strangling me when I was like 4 months pregnant and he was put on a limited protective order which means he could visit my home and communicate but no harassing, threatening, stalking, physical or verbal abuse. Well he swore at me in front of our son and then lost it the beginning of the July. He was doing all kinds of drugs and really depressed. He has anger issues and blames me for everything.</p>
<p>Since he was arrested in July for breaking original protective order the court issued a no contact order and he is going to have to undergo serious 6 month domestic violence treatment and plead guilty to one of the many charges.</p>
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<p>He was not able to be there for the birth of our second child and since no formal custody has been set up I don&#8217;t know if I should allow him to visit with the children. His mom offered to come and get them, but lately he has broken the no contact order and talked to me. I have not reported it cus I don&#8217;t want him in jail. </p>
<p>However, during these conversations he says how he was taking any and all drugs he was able to get his hands on when the violance occurred. He also mentioned he drove drunk and stumbled to his home last weekend. He says things like he wants to just drive his vehicle into a tree and die. I am concerned for his mental state of mind. </p>
<p>Shouldn&#8217;t I not allow him to see the kids until he gets therapy and on some medicine for anxiety and depression? State of CT. do you think if he files for visitation that the court would request the same and maybe even supervised visits?</p>
<p>I filed for child support and we have a court date in a few weeks. But he has barely supported them to this point. I am struggling financially but that is only one piece of the puzzle. Our children are 14 months and 4 weeks old. Should I allow his mom to pick them up for a visit?<br />
do you think the court will demand supervised visits? His family is threatning me with lawyers<br />
I have gotten some great answers. I am just nervous. Are we sure he will only get supervised visits with a proffessional?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A LITTLE MORE THAN A YEAR. OUR MARRIAGE STARTED OFF ON THE WRONG FOOT BECAUSE WE LOST A PREGNANCY THE MOTNTH BEFORE OUR WEDDING. MY NOW WIFE FELL INTO A DEEP DEPRESSION. SHE BECAME COMPLETELY OBSESSED WITH BABIES. AFTER THE MISCARRIAGE THE DOCTOR HAD TOLD HER TO BE CAREFUL AND [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A LITTLE MORE THAN A YEAR. OUR MARRIAGE STARTED OFF ON THE WRONG FOOT BECAUSE WE LOST A PREGNANCY THE MOTNTH BEFORE OUR WEDDING. MY NOW WIFE FELL INTO A DEEP DEPRESSION. SHE BECAME COMPLETELY OBSESSED WITH BABIES. AFTER THE MISCARRIAGE THE DOCTOR HAD TOLD HER TO BE CAREFUL AND NOT GET PREGNANT UNTIL AT LEAST A YEAR PASSED FROM THE SURGERY SHE HAD. SHE DID NOT LISTEN CHANGED DOCTORS AND WENT ON FERTILITY DRUGS WITHOUT EVEN LETTING ME IN ON IT. WE HAVE BEEN SEPARATED MANY TIMES BUT GET BACK TOGETHER MOSTLY BECAUSE I FEEL PRESSURED AND BLACKMAILED. AND TO ADD TO THIS SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING ON POUNDS SINCE WE GOT BACK FROM OUR HONEYMOON AND CONTINUES TO MAKE HERSELF LESS ATTRACTIVE, NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT AS A PERSON FOR ME. I DON&#8217;T KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW SHE IS TWO MONTHS ALONG IN A PREGNANCY THAT I AM NOT READY FOR AND DOUBT SHE IS. SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE BEING CAREFUL(USING BIRTH CONTROL) BUT CONTRARY TO THIS SHE WENT ON FERTILITY TREATMENTS BEHIND MY BACK. NOW I&#8217;M TRAPPED.</p>
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		<title>I don&#8217;t know if I should get married!!! I don&#8217;t trust him and I still hold resentment&#8230;?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been together 10 yrs. and all I&#8217;ve ever wanted was to be his wife and year after year and 2 kids later I had to basically beg to get him to ask me. When I told him that I don&#8217;t want to do it just because he felt bad for my crying about it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;ve been together 10 yrs. and all I&#8217;ve ever wanted was to be his wife and year after year and 2 kids later I had to basically beg to get him to ask me. When I told him that I don&#8217;t want to do it just because he felt bad for my crying about it and I want it to be something he wants too he said he does but I just don&#8217;t believe him. I can&#8217;t rely on my feelings and emotions because they are so out of wack right now due to the ridiculously stressful life I&#8217;ve subjected myself too, so 1 min he&#8217;s awesome and the next I wish I could just pack up and be gone, but it&#8217;s never that easy. I do suffer from depression and anxiety and I know I am not an ideal girlfriend but I bend over backwards and do flips for this man something that I rarely see from him. I put him through a lot with my mood swings and just plain ol psychoticness but I feel justified in my bad treatment of him because I feel like I&#8217;ve given so much of myself to him and his family without any regard for me and my feelings. In my heart I feel like I will never be his first priority and that his mother and sister will always come first and it makes me so sad and it really hurts to think that we&#8217;ve spent so time together and been through so much, I&#8217;ve slept in hotels/cars with him for 3 years, had 3 abortions because he told me the pregnancy was my decision and we really can&#8217;t afford to have children so I thought I was doing what he wanted me to do,<br />
I wash his clothes,<br />
clean the house,<br />
take care of the kids,<br />
pay the bills (which I have not been doing lately because I don&#8217;t know why I just get so stressed)<br />
allow his mother and sister to live with us because they get evicted (3 times now more than 6 months each situation)<br />
becoming more sexual<br />
play taxi (at least twice a week I have to pick either him or his mother up after I just worked a 9 hr shift being up since 4 am and sitting in traffic for hours, the list can go on but I do love this man although I think he can be such an ass because if I complain about doing any of the things listed above then I am not being a team player and I wonder wtf is he talking about because I am the team!!! But on the other hand he is sweet, he used to make me laugh but now I&#8217;m always so mad his jokes aren&#8217;t funny, I know he is a good man and together we can make things happen but I am really scared that I will not be made a priority and that I will end up hurting myself if I continue to stay I just want some peace and to be able to have our place/space to really grow up I am 27 and he is 29 and neither of us have ever really lived on our own except for our short 6 month breaks when I decided we need to move and get our own. I love his mother and sister but I want them to have their own lives and home and let us raise our family together and stop being so selfish but will I ever really be #1 to him and if we get married will he realize that he is now our family LEADER and take that responsibility seriously or will I continue to be the underdog although I am putting out the most results someone please help me I am at a loss!!!<br />
I put the details because I kind of need to vent also, I feel like an idiot when I try to talk to my friends or family because I don&#8217;t want to appear needy, I am currently in therapy to try and make some type of sense of my life and get it on track so I can be more productive for my children. Thank you all for even taking the time to read through all that and  giving your advice I really appreciate it alot :0)!!<br />
last addition, the reason I have to play taxi is because he and I are the ones with cars, his mom and sister&#8217;s cars were repo&#8217;d about 2-3 years ago and they have been relying on us to get around or driving his truck because I won&#8217;t let them take my car if it&#8217;s not work related.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t want to be pregnant anymore. Is this normal?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is my first pregnancy and I was very, very excited; it was all I ever thought about. At about 20 weeks or so, the anxiety and depression I&#8217;ve fought off and on for 10 years started coming back strong and I got treatment. Now that I&#8217;m 26 weeks and am on Zoloft and seeking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is my first pregnancy and I was very, very excited; it was all I ever thought about. At about 20 weeks or so, the anxiety and depression I&#8217;ve fought off and on for 10 years started coming back strong and I got treatment. Now that I&#8217;m 26 weeks and am on Zoloft and seeking psychiatric counseling, I feel a *million* times better and more like myself again.</p>
<p>Last week, my fiance and I took in an orphaned kitten, which I know is a TERRIBLE idea when you&#8217;re pregnant because they need a lot of attention, but she gets it and he took such a shine to her since she left her mom and siblings to choose us. Most of my me time is taken up by making sure she has attention and is fed (first with an eyedropper, but now bowls of kitten formula) and warm. I&#8217;m even waking up at all hours of the night to check on her and give her some food if she&#8217;s awake and I&#8217;m exhausted&#8211; this is the time when I&#8217;m supposed to be resting up!</p>
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<p>But I feel disgusted with myself because I&#8217;ve been less and less excited about being pregnant to the point where I honestly wonder if I just gave my daughter up for adoption, if I would even care. I feel actual aversion to looking at the baby clothes I&#8217;ve collected so far and have no emotion feeling when my baby kicks anymore, something that used to make me so happy I would nearly cry. My fiance has never shown as much interest as I did in the pregnancy, which is normal for men I&#8217;ve heard since they don&#8217;t really bond with the baby until they&#8217;re out. Now I feel like he probably does and that isn&#8217;t normal. I shouldn&#8217;t feel neutral about the baby inside me.</p>
<p>What should I do? I feel like a complete monster. Can anyone identify with this?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi, I&#8217;m 21 and pregnan with my second child. I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter and another daughter on the way in just 3 short months. I am with the father and overall we try to make things work the best we can. I have been with him since we were 15 and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I&#8217;m 21 and pregnan with my second child. I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter and another daughter on the way in just 3 short months. I am with the father and overall we try to make things work the best we can. I have been with him since we were 15 and known him since as far back as I remember (classic girl/boy next door story). The problem is I have been suffering with undiagnosed depression for a long time now. I was always too afraid to tell anyone or do anything about it. My boyfriend has always known this about me, since when I let someone close its hard to hide. With my first pregnancy I coped and it didn&#8217;t get any worse then normal. As I said I have always just coped with this problem myself and sometimes it gets better but it almost always goes right back to worse. At times it has led into suicidal or self destructive behavior or thoughts. This pregnancy is much differant then last time around. I am becoming severely depressed with a lot of suicidal thoughts. My relationship is suffering because of it and I fear he is going to leave me if it doesn&#8217;t improve. That man has gone through so much crap with me I wouldn&#8217;t even be able to blame him if he left. My problem is I don&#8217;t really have an option to seek help. My insurence does not cover mental health treatment whether its inpatient or outpatient. Every day I feel as if I am going to loose it and breakdown. My question is, does anyone know of any good free support groups or websites or any free tools or books for me to use to try other options before treatment??? As I said I don&#8217;t have insurence for treatment nor the money to pay out of pocket. I live in the DFW, Tx area so please if you have any advice it would be much appreciated!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My name is Terisa and I am in desperate need of help! I am 19 years old and have been very ill for almost a year now. I have seen several doctors (including specialists), had hundreds of tests, and even more medications and treatments to no avail. I am getting pretty desperate because the nature of my illness is one that restricts me to home, limits me to few activities, and most importantly, keeps me in constant pain. I am hoping that somewhere out there is my House. I am looking for a doctor looking for a challenge or someone that has struggled with illness that may have answers! I am willing to take any suggestions so if anyone has any idea of what I could have, please feel free to put in your two cents! And please don&#8217;t hold back because of how serious a diagnoses you have. I&#8217;ve been told I have all sorts of terrible diseases so I&#8217;m not shy about that. The following are my symptoms. </p>
<p>*Wide spread, chronic, severe pain that is worst in the knees, hips, and back. The pain is made worse by movement, sitting, standing, exercise, walking, bending over, crouching down, and on bad days, laying down. The pain is helped by narcotic pain killers and heat but never goes away completely. A normal day my pain is between a 5 and 7 on the pain scale. With drugs, a 3 to 6 (The pain started March 2nd, 2009. At the time I was diagnosed with a bulging disc but I have since been undiagnosed. However the pain mimics that of a bulging disc if that helps.)</p>
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<p>*Chronic, debilitating fatigue. This is more recent than the pain.</p>
<p>*Insomnia (I have always slept well before this.)</p>
<p>*Hair loss</p>
<p>*Cold Intolerance</p>
<p>*Clotting disorder (This one is bizarre. I have never had a problem until recently when I started bleeding into a bruise (blood started to pool under the skin at bruise site) and had a nose bleed for 2 hours. Tests show that I have a problem with my clotting time and my Factor 7 is high.)</p>
<p>*Severe abdominal pain (Severe abdominal spasms that bring me to my knees. I have been diagnosed with IBS but I include this as a symptom just in case.)</p>
<p>*Joint stiffness and weakness.</p>
<p>*Numbness, tingling, and weakness in left leg and lower back (this is why they thought I had a bulging disc.)</p>
<p>*Occasional twitching and shaking</p>
<p>*Extreme changes in appetite (sometimes I can&#8217;t eat and sometimes I can&#8217;t stop.)</p>
<p>*Nausea</p>
<p>*Headaches</p>
<p>*Stomach Ulcer (this might be stress related or some bizarre manifestation or what I have, I don;t know yet.)</p>
<p>*Changes in menstrual cycle even though I am on birth control and have been for 2 years.</p>
<p>*Irritability, anxiety, and depression. </p>
<p>Now here is the really bizarre part. I have been tested for and do not have: Hypothyroidism, Leukemia, Lupus, Rheumatoid Arthritis, A factor 7 disease, pregnancy, or anemia. This is where I stump everyone. I test negative for everything! So this is where I need help. If anyone has an idea of 1) What else I could possible have or 2) how it is possible that I could have the above mentioned things and test negative. </p>
<p>Well thanks for your time and help. I really appreciate anything anyone can offer me! </p>
<p>Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>Trying for #3&#8230;No luck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 14:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Me and my husband are trying for number 3 (number 4 if you count my ectopic pregnancy in 2006, we count him but some people don&#8217;t.) We have an 8 y/o girl and a 20 m/o girl. After my youngest was born I went on Mirena, but it fell out. I can&#8217;t remember to takethe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me and my husband are trying for number 3 (number 4 if you count my ectopic pregnancy in 2006, we count him but some people don&#8217;t.) We have an 8 y/o girl and a 20 m/o girl. After my youngest was born I went on Mirena, but it fell out. I can&#8217;t remember to takethe pill, so I went on the depo shot. I took my last dose June of 2008. Didn&#8217;t get my period back until Dec. Skipped it in Jan. Had one in Feb., and now I&#8217;m skipping it again, I know I&#8217;m skipping it because all pregnancy tests are coming back negative. Any suggestions. I have only one tube as a result of my ectopic. I&#8217;m beginning to thinkI won&#8217;t ever become pregnant. Please give me advice or suggestions that may help, my insurance doesn&#8217;t pay for fertility treatments and we can&#8217;t afford them. Could it also be possible that my husband being on 12 medications at the moment have made him sterile. Its mainly for his chronic back pain, depression, allergies and high blood pressure.</p>
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		<title>Is there a neonatologist out there? Dilemma about birth in a hospital w/o NICU!?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 14:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m at the beginning of week 39 and we are still considering where to have our baby. I&#8217;m 29 years old, perfectly healthy, the baby is great too, weighs about 3 kilos and the pregnancy has so far been physiological with no problems whatsoever. The dilemma is, we have 2 hospitals to choose from &#8211; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m at the beginning of week 39 and we are still considering where to have our baby. I&#8217;m 29 years old, perfectly healthy, the baby is great too, weighs about 3 kilos and the pregnancy has so far been physiological with no problems whatsoever.<br />
The dilemma is, we have 2 hospitals to choose from &#8211; one is a state hospital with a NICU but terrible conditions for the mothers &#8211; they actually still perform preventive episiotomies and women aren&#8217;t encouraged or allowed to give birth in any other position than the lithotomy (this is 21st century Slovakia)! I&#8217;m in depression just thinking about it <img src='http://www.pregnancydepression.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
The other option is a state hospital in nearby Austria which is extremely baby- and mother-friendly, has great staff and they are willing to support me in every point of my birthplan. They are expensive almost beyond what we can afford (as I&#8217;m not insured in Austria, I&#8217;ll have to pay for everything) AND don&#8217;t have a NICU.<br />
I feel that when I chose the medieval one, I&#8217;m doing the right thing for my baby, but I don&#8217;t know how big the risk is something goes wrong in this stage and he&#8217;ll actually need the NICU (it&#8217;s usually the premature babies who do, isn&#8217;t it?); on the other hand, I&#8217;m freaked out at the thought of the &#8220;treatment&#8221; I&#8217;ll get and the stress, pain and injury. If we choose Austria, I&#8217;ll feel irresponsible towards my baby, although the experience will undoubtedly be much more bearable for me and for him too (if everything goes allright).<br />
What would you choose? Am Ia ctually putting the baby at real risk if I go to a hospital without a NICU? Or will the stress I&#8217;ll undoubtedly experience in the Slovak hospital be a sort of risk too? Thanks a lot for your opinions!<br />
The transfer to an Austrian NICU and the care there would cost much (tens of thousands of dollars) and take long (it&#8217;s 50km).</p>
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		<title>pregnant with terrible anxiety and panic, depressed?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 14:17:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m 6 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby. I have been suffering from anxiety and panic disorder for the past 6 months with no treatment. Gets worse during period times also. My pregnancy has been going well up to about a week ago. My anxiety is sooo much worse. Its making me dizzy and spaced [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m 6 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby. I have been suffering from anxiety and panic disorder for the past 6 months with no treatment. Gets worse during period times also. My pregnancy has been going well up to about a week ago. My anxiety is sooo much worse. Its making me dizzy and spaced out, palpitations often, feeling depressed and just feeling like myself. I was so happy and now I am a wreck! I&#8217;m not even happy to be pregnant anymore, I almost feel like keeping myself in the house all day and never going anywhere. I have 4 other kids to take care of. Im afraid I will not cope and will fall into a deeep depression and anxiety state.  What do I do? Havent been to doc yet cause waiting for my insurance to kick in. What will happen if I tell him how im feeling? What treatment is available for me? I cant go on like this for 9 months!!! Hubby works long hours so hard for him to help me out!</p>
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		<title>28 and trying to conceive&#8230;HELP!!!?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 14:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a 28 yr old mom of 2. I have had one ectopic pregnancy (after the other kids) that ended with the Dr. removing one of my tubes. I was on Depo-Provera for 1 year after the tube was removed. I got off, but couldn&#8217;t get pregnant for 1.5 yrs, and the menstrual cycle [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a 28 yr old mom of 2. I have had one ectopic pregnancy (after the other kids) that ended with the Dr. removing one of my tubes. I was on Depo-Provera for 1 year after the tube was removed. I got off, but couldn&#8217;t get pregnant for 1.5 yrs, and the menstrual cycle was HELL&#8230;severe cramps, horrible mood swings, depression, heavy bleeding, headaches&#8230;so I succumbed and tried the pill&#8230;it increased my depression, so I went back to Depo to get SOME relief.  My periods stopped completely after one month, and I instantly felt like I had made a mistake, because I really do want to get pregnant. I did not get my next shot, and my period still has not come back&#8230;My son is 9 and my daughter is 5 and I really don&#8217;t want to have such a huge gap between my oldest and my youngest! Please help if you know what I can do to get pregnant. We do NOT have $ for fertility treatments&#8230;so other options, please! Thanks!</p>
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		<title>expecting 2nd child and feeling weird/scared</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 14:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#8217;m 36 weeks pregnant, i am married (to a wonderful, although a pain in the butt, man) and have a 4yr old. this has been a difficult pregnancy&#8211; i have had 3 threatened miscarriages, among other problems. i was really happy when we found out i was pregnant, and still am happy. i look forward [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m 36 weeks pregnant, i am married (to a wonderful, although a pain in the butt, man) and have a 4yr old.  this has been a difficult pregnancy&#8211; i have had 3 threatened miscarriages, among other problems.  i was really happy when we found out i was pregnant, and still am happy.  i look forward to seeing our new son.<br />
my problem is that i have a mixed range of emotions.  i&#8217;m excited to see our baby, but at the same time, i&#8217;m almost afraid to.  i&#8217;m afraid of not giving my 4yr old the attention he needs, and i&#8217;m afraid of not having the same feelings for the new baby as i do my 4 yr old.  i&#8217;m afraid i won&#8217;t be as interested in my new baby. </p>
<p> i told my husband and he says he thinks things will be fine, and knows all will be well.  my husband thinks that its because of everything else going on is why i feel this way. my grannie who is more like my mom has cancer and isn&#8217;t doing well with the new treatments (my mom died of cancer 2 months after my 4 yr old was born), the complications, and trouble with some of my other family members really have me down.  i talked to my dr (my ob) and was started on zoloft because i didn&#8217;t want to feel bad while pregnant, and wanted to try to prevent postpartum depression.</p>
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<p>anyone else feel afraid of not loving their 2nd or 3rd, etc child more than the first?  or am i just completely nuts? </p>
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		<title>To mummies that went through depression in pregnancy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 14:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am now 32 weeks pregnant and have been depressed on and off since about 24 weeks. I will mention it to my gp on my next visit (next week) because I&#8217;m getting sick of it. To mums that went through depression, for what reason were you depressed and what kind of treatment did you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am now 32 weeks pregnant and have been depressed on and off since about 24 weeks. I will mention it to my gp on my next visit (next week) because I&#8217;m getting sick of it. To mums that went through depression, for what reason were you depressed and what kind of treatment did you receive? Did it go away after birth? I am depressed about little stupid things, I feel like I&#8217;m a bad person for not doing anything so bad. I&#8217;m just a human and I&#8217;m not perfect I know that lol but why do I feel guilty about every single mistake I&#8217;ve made in past and in present?</p>
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		<title>36 weeks pregnant long time since I&#8217;ve seen a doctor?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 14:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Im pregnant for the first time and scared because I haven&#8217;t been seeing a doctor regularly, I saw a doctor regularly for the first 20 weeks. After that I had some insurance and money issues and the doctor discharged me as a client&#8230; so I went 12 weeks without seeing a doctor. Finally I filed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im pregnant for the first time and scared because I haven&#8217;t been seeing a doctor regularly, I saw a doctor regularly for the first 20 weeks. After that I had some insurance and money issues and the doctor discharged me as a client&#8230; so I went 12 weeks without seeing a doctor. Finally I filed for medicaid and started seeing another doctor, this doctor didn&#8217;t do much he measured my belly checked the fetal heartbeat and urine and sent me on my way. I saw him for 2 weeks and did my gestational diabetes test, which was elivated so I had to do the second one&#8230; mean while before I could get my doctor to give me the results they discharged me too because I still have 20 days before my medicaid case is approved, my medicaid is still pending. </p>
<p>The baby is due on 2-1-09 and I wont be able to see a doctor till the end of all this when Im in labor, Im upset and worried&#8230; its been a slightly complicated pregnancy in the first place, I had a kidney infection in week 21 and had to go to the hospital because I started contracting I was given a shot to stop the contractions and sent home with medication. I have had severe depression and mood swings, I have a problem keeping myself hydrated, and I just don&#8217;t know what to do and I want my baby to be okay.</p>
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<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been having back pains, contractions here and there and been losing my mucus plug&#8230; what if I go into labor early? will my baby be okay? and what if I have gestational diabetes and get no treatment? How important is the strep b test and how can I take it? I don&#8217;t know how big the baby is yet either and Im concerned about her size. </p>
<p>Baby Alysha moves around alot, so I figure shes okay since shes active&#8230; but I need something more concrete! can anyone suggest what I should do?</p>
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		<title>I WANT TO START SUBOXONE WHEN DO I KNOW WHEN I SHOULD START I HAVE SEVERE PAIN AS WELL WHAT CAN I DO?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello I have a few questions for all the pain management people or people on this treatment . I have been threw withdwawels without anything but now with the sub I want to know when I should start it, Like how far into withdrawels do I have to be in? Is there a certain amount [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello I have a few questions for all the pain management people or people on this treatment . I have been threw withdwawels without anything but  now with the sub I want to know when I should start it, Like how far into withdrawels do I have to be in? Is there a certain amount of hours after my last pill?  Because I deffinality dont want to go into the bad withdrawels so what is the first sign or symptom that I should take it.</p>
<p>Also I do have real severe pain and I read that it can help and I also heard that it doesnt what options do I have for my pain that are non narcodic Like some type of shot they give you every few months im not sure what it is called. But I am on a very high dosage of pain meds that is ruining my life and i have been on them for about 9 years  since my 1st car accident then my pregnancy led to more and more issues I have 3 herinated discs and motoscolices and rotoscolises I have a son that I can not play with or pick up I even have trouble changing his diaper I can&#8217;t get out of bed in the morning Thank god for a great father, I have post partum depression as well.<br />
I would love to hear any type of stories or information on any of the subjects I&#8217;m talk about. I can&#8217;t wait to start the suboxen but afraid of my pain still being there I want my life back and to be happy and play with my son without having to be on narcodics.<br />
SO MY MAIN QUESTIONS ARE, WHEN SHOULD I START AFTER LAST PILL? WHAT OTHER OPTIONS DO I HAVE FOR MY SEVERE PAIN.</p>
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<p>Also I know my doctor is starting me off at 8 mg but how many do they usually prescribe  I go every 28 days.<br />
And if the suboxone does not help with my pain will my doctor put me back on my pain meds? As of right now I am taking a very high amount of medication oxydose&#8217;msir,perocet 10 mg and diladuid 8 mg only because I have built such a high tolerance because I have been on them so long Even with the amount I am taking I still have pain I am completely fuctional and am not nodding out like I see a lot of people do when they are on these medications so please help me</p>
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		<title>Stay at home mom depressed and lonely don&#8217;t know what to do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 14:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have 2 children. One 6 and one 13 months. I&#8217;m almost 7 months pregnant and stay at home everyday. I don&#8217;t have any friends anymore my stepsister/ best friend quit talking to me b/c she doesn&#8217;t like my boyfriend (father of my 3 children) I&#8217;m low income and live in a rural area and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have 2 children. One 6 and one 13 months. I&#8217;m almost 7 months pregnant and stay at home everyday. I don&#8217;t have any friends anymore my stepsister/ best friend quit talking to me b/c she doesn&#8217;t like my boyfriend (father of my 3 children) I&#8217;m low income and live in a rural area and can&#8217;t afford to go out and do much. I would love to get a job, but I can&#8217;t afford daycare and rent on minimum wage (that&#8217;s all the jobs pay in my area). I used to spend time with my mom but she hasn&#8217;t been around much lately b/c my stepdad has aggressive cancer and gets daily treatment and hour away. I just really feel alone lately and don&#8217;t know what to do. I have nothing to look forward to. My boyfriend works a lot so I don&#8217;t even see him that often. I was being treated for postpartum depression when I got pregnant but had to quit taking med due to pregnancy. And I no longer go to counseling b/c I felt like I wasn&#8217;t doing much talking- my counselor mostly chit chatted about her grandkids. I wake up everyday not wanting to get out of bed b/c I know all there is to do is clean. I plan to start school in the fall, but that&#8217;s still 3 months away. Has anyone else ever felt like this? What can I do to make things better? .</p>
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		<title>My husband wants me to have an abortion, says he doesn&#8217;t know if he loves me? Feel so alone and used.?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 14:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I went through a very bad year, and we moved to atlanta for jobs that my sister helped us to get in door. My husband had been unemployed for an extended period of time- limited to no income for 3 years. I had been laid off and underwent treatment for cancer. Between [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I went through a very bad year, and we moved to atlanta for jobs that my sister helped us to get in door. My husband had been unemployed for an extended period of time- limited to no income for 3 years. I had been laid off and underwent treatment for cancer.  Between my health and what I see as his struggle with depression we were beyond the boiling point- rock bottom. Moving, a steady income, and a fresh start  seemed to be what we needed.  Its not that it was perfect over night,but it was moving in the right direction. We were going to move into our own place next week., we have been going ou and there was passion and tenderness. . We are both well educated and though new at our jobs, earn a good joint income right now and have started to rebuild our savings.  The night before last he assured me that he loved me and really wanted to be married to me and grow old together&#8230; Then yesterday I told him I was pregnant and he told me he wasn&#8217;t sure if he really loved me, and wanted me to have an abortion.  He basically accused me of trying to trap him with a pregnancy or acted like it was deliberate.I had been told that due to endometriosis and the treatments I had gone through for cancer, it was unlikely that I would conceive with out assistance. We used contraceptives every time we were intimate despite what the doctors told me.  We did have broken condemn and I did get pregnant. It is a shock to me too, not some plot. I am afraid of raising a child alone, or bringing a child into the world who isnt wanted by its father. I am afraid of losing my husband, and know men aren&#8217;t lining up to step in and date a women with a baby or even a young kid. My heart is broken to hear that my husband doesn&#8217;t know if he loves me because despite it all I love him,  and that he wants to abort the baby.  I am here in a new city with no one to talk to and I don&#8217;t know what to do.  I called in sick to work and I dont know what to do.</p>
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