how can i help my sis in depression and with angry problems?
its a long story..my sister is 4 years older than me and she is nervous since she was little always having this sentiment than my family doesnt support her and also than my family makes difference between us,also than she envy me beacuse i am more pretty(she thinks).
now she is 29 and still doesnt make any difference even if we make efforts to support her everytime she needs us only than she cannot see that we care and we want her good,she always tell us bad words,talks to us on a nervous accent,yells..blames us,makes us feel guilty even for things than we didnt intend to do…
recently she told me that since she was liitle my parents beat her for no reasons and that they always did good things to me and not to her…i asked my parents and sais that it isnt true..this happens in her mind and that when she grew up in highschool she was rebel and did some things that disearved a palm over her face(smoking,giving up food,stealing,having boyfriends married man..etc)…still i dont remember her to be beated by them.
i think she started to invent things because of her nerv problems.Her problems grew in her life because when she was a teenager she was almost violated,than she had a car accident,a a lost pregnancy and a try to suicide with pills and alcool(this we found out this days).
We want to help her but she doesnt accept any help to change her way of seeing things,to be more positive and calme.she always blames us for whatever she makes up in her mind.
we are a normal family but she doesnt want too see us when we help and when we care…i tried to make her think positive and not to be angry all the time but she doesnt want help but still blames us and makes us feel guilty.
how can we help her?please help we are tired to try to understand her and not knowing what else to do to make her realise that we are not the enemies?how can we help her before she doesn a crazy thing?After she said that she took pills with alcohol i am scared that if we say or do something that she things is bad she will repeat it.I FORGOT TO TELL U THAT IN HER VISION WE MUST BE AT HER NEEDS EVERYTIME NO DISCUSSION AND NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO HAVE A LIFE ,A JOB,AN INTERVIEW,A SICKNESS BECAUSE SHE THINGS WE MADE IT UP NOT TO HELP HER.
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Your post almost made me cry because I feel like I am your sister.
I’m going through the same thing right now.
Your sister is missing something right now.
She needs a boyfriend. Your sister is going through depression.
There is nothing that you can do!! Her mind is somewhere else!!
You can try talking to her, you can try buyin her things, but nothing will help.
She needs a boyfriend… she feels lonely.
She feels like she has nothing in common with you and the family.
I feel bad for her, because I know what it feels like.
She loves you guys I know she does, she just takes you for granted.
And when you try to teach her things she gets offended because its hard for her to be “good”
To help your sister, you could pray for her. Tell God about it. God is love. Know that God can help you and your sister live a better life. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end — time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God’s Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God’s blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can’t explain the world’s natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner’s prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: “Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus’ name, amen.” I’m Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and see about their weekly Bible study group to learn about God’s will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you and your sister.