I have recently suffered a miscarriage at 12 weeks and now have been diagnosed with genital herpes?
Friday, August 27th, 2010 at
7:14 am
Could things get any worse? I feel my life is not worth living anymore as so many bad things have happened to me in the space of 4 weeks!
I am with a loving partner but i’m not sure his love is enough. I only got over deep depression last year, when I attempted suicide several times (before I met my current partner). I just want to know why all these horrible things have happened to me? what have I done to deserve this..
Tagged with: been • diagnosed • Genital • Herpes • Miscarriage • recently • suffered • weeks
Filed under: Miscarriage Depression
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There are medications to control the outbreaks of herpes…I think Zovirax is one of them? check with your doctor on that…
Life is difficult sometimes…for all of us…sometimes just have to take life one day at a time…some days will be better than others..
The physical problems are easy to treat. I encourage you to seek professional help for how you feel.
With a past history of suicidally you need to see a Psychiatrist and straight away. please don’t waste your time with amateurs or pop psychology.
Life is a b*tch sometimes … we all have our crosses to bear…..
the genital herpes is something that u need to discuss with your GP concerning your treatment … as far as your miscarriage goes there isn’t anything anyone can say to comfort u in your loss… i have suffered 2 miscarriages and 1 ectopic ….
just take some time out for yourself and let yourself grieve …
i cannot imagine what your going through…but i have and still kinda am goin thourgh depression. I was raped by a man, and im a guy too, and i have hepatitis c. i have oral herpes. this sucks! and it sucks for you, 2! man…i swear…sometimes…people only focus on the bad sht in thier lives, and because *what we reinforce, we get more of*, things look bad. you should really watch this movie. called “The Secret”. you can buy it at http://www.whatisthesecret.tv or you can google it and watch it for free in segments, but anyways…it talks about the law of attraction and how what we think about, we get more of. so its hard for me to apply to my life, cuz i dont want to lie to myself, but this is true. like, have you ever thought somehting bad was gonna happen, and it does? but if you think soething good is gonna happen then that does? well…whethery ou said yes or no, its the idea behind it. i wana say to u…dont focus on bad stuff…or else you’ll keep gettin bad stuff. there is no quick fix to your situation…if you want a quick fix, then i would adopt, and do it with a condom…what is your spirituality? pray, or meditate, and focus on getting better. theres a story of a woman who overcame breast cancer without therapy. she just imagined herself healing, and avoided stress. life is too short to worry. unless your doing homework or something like that. i could go on 4ever…but dont worry! NOTHING lasts 4ever. everything passes…money, health, wealth…this is juist our life on earth. after this, you wont remember any of it. i might sound crazy 2 u..and i guess i am kinda…but yeah.. i kinda represed how i felt about the bad stuff that has happened. but talking about it helps. i tell random ppl on the street what happened to me. but anyway…your mind is very powerful-stronger than you know, and you potential is limitless. look at steven hawkins…fukin handicapped for life and he was content. use your mind.
hope it helps. God bless. If you dont believe in God..well..take care =)
Genital herpes isn’t the worse thing in the world. There’s medication out there that can prevent you from getting outbreaks. One question, how was the herpes transmitted to you? Through your current partner? If so he’s been very irresponsible for infecting you.
Miscarriages on the other hand, although traumatic and painful, are your bodies way of telling you that it’s not the right time.
I know things look bad right now, but when it rains it poors. I’m sure things will be looking up for you in no time.
You have done nothing to deserve this….there is no real answer. All you can do today is start to make things better. In life it is not where we start, but where we finish. The past can be a road map, but it can also be an anchor. You choose which one it is. It is good you have a loving partner, but any real changes in your life will have to come from you. He can support you, but you must be the master of the change. You can do this…you have the strength…Good luck.
Each experience we have in life makes up who we are. Some bad some good. Just like when you make a cake the raw eggs and oil is icky if taken by their self but get them baked into cake cake and how yummy. So hang in there and become a better more abler person because of them. Good experiences to you.
So very, very sorry to hear this. You may want to watch this. I found it very comforting in my loss….
“I Spoke With My Child”
http://www.ISpokeWithMyChild.com