I’m 27 and already have a child, which am very happy about. (not with her anymore but have a good relationship)
My girlfriend is just 22 and at uni in a different country. After i been seeing her for 4 months, she had just started uni and she fell pregnant. she wanted an abortion, but i didn’t but felt i should support her anyway.
7 Months later she vecame pregnant again. Was a shock but she came round to the idea slowly. A week ago she had a mis carriage. I straight away went to her, but after 2 days she wanted me gone, and said she wanted to finish with me. I understand this may be depression and hormones, but its so difficult to stay away. She is a very quiet person and hates talking about feelings and stuff.
Should i just give her space? At present i jus text her to ask her how she is, and get a basic reply. Should i try and persist with her to try and get her to talk or just leave her to be alone.
At present she is stilla little sore but on the mend.
Am totally despairing right now, i really am confused as to what to do.
this was not an unwanted pregnency on my part.
And as i said when she was pregnant recently she came round to the idea and was happy about it. Now she has lost the baby and is devasted, and all u pack of tossers can say is u should be more careful.
I am asking on advice here to try and help her through this, not for criticism!

Tagged with: Abortion • after • Depression • Major • Miscarriage

Filed under: Miscarriage Depression

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