Mood Swings * Pregnancy?
Monday, August 30th, 2010 at
7:09 am
Mood Swings from sad, upset, depressed to happiness and high sex drive with a lot of Possesiveness is traits I am seeing in my wife since she has been pregnant. I can make jokes and she wants to twist my ear in public; pinch and hit but if she makes similar or the same jokes with me I’m pretty cool. She is often hard to read. I don’t know what to say or do but I do know she wants to stay married and she loves me.
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Yes ma’am, no ma’am
it’s hormones all women are like that!! LOL!
It is all part of the hormonal swings of pregnancy. Be supportive and come up with a funny code phrase like “polkadot elephant” that she can say to you when you are out in public and she is perceiving you as being insenstive. By using the code phrase she is letting you know she is feeling “needy” right then without it becoming a fight. You will know it is time to show some extra care without getting the pinches
Hang in there, and just agree with everything she says. It too shall pass and you will have a beautiful baby in the end.
to be honest you need to need try the you make me feel _______
when________because_______ and if she gets mad after tell her be nice to me
It is normal and expected that way. You both will get over it. Just remember that your wife needs that little bit of extra care from you to ‘understand’ her better at this time than never before. Be good to her though she may upset you at times and understand that it is her hormones that keep changing in her body as it prepares for the baby’s development. So take good care of her and ur baby. Good luck.
I did the same thing to my husband when I was pregnant with our child and there were times he wanted to scream because, I drove him nuts . You might try to talk to her about the things that she is doing but, also tell her that you don’t want to hurt her feelings but, you need to figure out away to be able to talk to her and not upset her but, also a way that you don’t have to walk on eggs shells every time you are around her . So I hope that will help
It’s normal…. just try to bear with her as she goes through this pregnancy….Her body is changing and her moods with it. Good luck.
just be patient and next time you want a baby remember how you were treated
The mood swings are totally normal. UP down and everywhere in between. The possesiveness comes from the insecurities about all the changes on the outside of her body. She feels like you will think she is less attractive to you. And that you might leave her. This is normal, just remind her how much you love her and that she is doing themost important job of her life .
Do not be afraid, she will revert back to normal after the baby is born, but not for several weeks. She may still be very emotional and exhausted all the time. Remember she will bleed for about 6 weeks after the baby is born so she will be moody (hormones) and very tired (lack of blood). She will be run down easy and will need your love, HELP with Baby, and support. Help her any way you can, imagine how you would feel if you were growing a new life inside of your quickly enlarging belly.
Forget all he mood swings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Focus on how beautiful she is. Tell her everyday and mean it.
Let her joke but not you. Not now. Forget trying to read her, you need to focus on everything great about her, why you married her and for God sake ………..your having a baby………….
Enjoy the ride…She will come back
P.S. CONGRADULATIONS
I suggest that you start drinking – ALOT.
When you woman is pregnant – this is what happens. Take up woodworking or some hobby in the garage and LOCK the doors and hide.
And the worst part, if you upset her now when the hormones are acting all funny – she will bring that stuff up years later when she is expecting the next child.
Hang in there her harmones are going wild. It’s crazy how you feel. I’ve never been pregnant before til now. I’ve always wondered why the mood swings or how women feel when pregnant. OMG! This sucks …Well i’m 9wks and it’s sucked so far. I even got to the point that I can’t stand my fiancee being all lovey dovey with me. He gets on my nerves. I rather be alone. And I don’t know why. I use to want to see him everyday. You know? Be with him all the time. Sometimes I wanna cry. Hang in there! It will pass!